Somewhere along the way, I was exposed to a wonderful public relations expression called the Law of Opposites.
Although less familiar to the general populace than laws such as the Third Law of Thermodynamics, or DUI, or DWI, it has a place in our toolbox.
This is the law that states: When you say something, itâ€™s highly likely that people will believe the exact opposite is true.
Do you know who Richard Nixon is? If not, you may not be scarred by the period of discontent and cultural revolution that typified his tenure as President. But, he should have learned the law of opposites before he began public service. At one point in his fabled and rocky career, he said, â€œI am not a crook.â€ Well, in the Land of Opposites, this is interpreted by many citizens as, â€œI am a crook.â€ Eventually, he had to resign as President because of bad break-in artists and sloppy audio tape management.
Letâ€™s put this law to another test. President Obama, addressing both chambers of Congress on the 9th day of the 9th month at 9 p.m. Central time, in 2009, (something seems strange here) basically stated that healthcare reform will not add one penny to the national debt.
Applying â€œThe Law,â€ we hear: â€œBoy, this reform is going to cost me a bundle.â€
It works not only in political life, but in â€“ believe it or not â€“ Hollywood. For example, when you hear an actor, who is paid $40 million for a bad movie, utter, â€œThis isnâ€™t about me, itâ€™s about those behind the scenes, who made this happen,â€ you wonderâ€¦Well, then, why is he or she making $40 million per movie?
This works in your daily life, too. Examples include: â€œNo, officer I didnâ€™t know I was speeding,â€ or, â€œNo, Hon, I havenâ€™t been cheating on you,â€ or, â€œI donâ€™t search the Internet for â€˜thatâ€™ kind of stuff!â€
So, as would-be practitioners of the art/science (choose one) of public relations, be careful what you have your client say to the masses. And, closing on yet another presidential noteâ€¦if you say, â€œI did not have sexual relations with that woman,â€â€¦well, okay you get the point.